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I came across this post earlier today and thought it was hilarious. This 25 year old lady would rather take her chances in marrying any guy who makes over 500k+ a year rather than try and become successful on her own.
Why does she feel she can't become successful on her own?
That is a good question one can ask after reading this. J.P. Morgan CEO replies to her by saying that she also has a better chance at actually trying to become rich on her own rather than trying to find a rich man who would be foolish enough to make this decision. He states very good and accurate points at why a rich one who made over 500k+ a year would never agree to marry a woman like her. The way he stated this information was amazing. THIS IS A MUST READ. I feel like in life many people want to take the shortcut or easy way out. This is not the way people should be if they want to be successful. To live a successful life, one must understand that it takes patience, dedication and handwork. You have taken a shortcut in your life that helped you out a few times but it is never guaranteed. Eventually that shortcut leads to a dead end. If you set your mind to something you are passionate about and want to succeed in, then no one can stop you.
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Jeff Bliss
In this video, Jeff Bliss stands up to his high school teacher about how he
feels she should be teaching the class. All Jeff wanted to do was let the
teacher know that some students learn better when the teacher teaches the
students hands on vs. just giving them assignments and expecting them to finish
them. I believe that this is true, and Jeff was absolutely right. If a teacher
were to give hand out after hand out, though a student may get this work done,
he or she may never fully become knowledgeable about the subject. The goal
after all is to TEACH students, not just have them do work and work only.
"You want kids to come to class? You want them to get excited? You gotta
come in here, you gotta make 'em excited, to change him and make him better,
you gotta touch his freakin' heart. You can't expect a kid to change if all you
do is just tell him." I don't think anyone could have said that better
than Jeff at that moment. That statement is beyond true because you really cannot
expect a kid to change by just giving them work. Most teachers these days come to
school to "teach" because they are getting paid for it. Teaching is supposed
to be ones passion. Teachers are supposed to try to connect and help the
student to the best of their ability. When a teacher connects with a student,
that student feels more confident to try and actually feels motivated to learn.
When you can get that student motivated to learn, there is nothing in the way
for you as a teacher to make him as knowledgeable as possible. That bond
becomes strong and that student will always look forward to learning something
new each and every day vs. feeling down and unmotivated coming to class. That
teacher in the video was placed on administrative leave because of Jeff's video
going viral.
Do you agree or disagree with Jeff?
Andrade Video Response
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2CwS60ykM8s
My response to this Andrade video was that how amazing a little town can be,
even though its location isn't in the greatest of areas. Oakland has numerous
amounts of homicides each year; however Piedmont keeps this number low. Despite
their location being near the center of Oakland, they have still been
successful at keeping their community homicide free. Not only are the homicide
rates low at Piedmont, but they also have one of the best schooling you can
get. I think it's amazing what Piedmont can do as a community despite is
location. To be in the middle of Oakland and still be able to be this
successful shows how versatile it truly is. We need more communities throughout
the United States like Piedmont to set examples. In this video Jeff Duncan says
"The conditions in which the urban youth are growing are not natural.
They're created which mean they can be changed." He says this particular
quote after going into discussion about a flower growing in concrete which is a
poem by Tupac. He sees the community as a damaged rose growing in concrete. Yes
the community is damaged and needs work, but that doesn't mean that it can't
shine line the rose in the sun. It just requires some work and patience. I
believe that every community can be successful just like Piedmont is. It takes
leaders and people willing to put in the time and effort to make it something
amazing.
1. Would it be possible to take aspects of the Piedmont's community and
apply them to another community and get the same success?
2. Why isn't this information being provided to the communities that require
and need it?
3. How can teachers learn to understand different situations of each
unmotivated student in hopes to motivate them?
My Passion
This is a video of Apna Bhangra Crew @ Bruin Bhangra 2012. I posted this particular video because it is one of my favorite videos and performances. I am also currently on a local dance team like this in the bay area. The team that I am on is named NSG, Nachde Shookeen Gabroo. The type of dance displayed in the video is called Bhangra. Bhangra was originated in Punjab, India and is traced back as far as 500 years! It is a type of dance that is performed at a high energy level as a celebration of life. I love dancing, so Bhangra to me is the perfect and most joyful activity to pass time and relieve stress. Even though we compete at various competitions, win or lose, as a team we always have a blast performing for an audience. School, work and just simply life gets stressful sometimes, but when I am dancing, none of that crosses my mind because I feel free during those moments. I enjoy every bit of it and it is for sure the best extracurricular activity for me. Bhangra/dancing is my passion and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Deal Breakers
Potential Deal Breakers
The Passion Project
http://vimeo.com/64410009
The Passion Project
This movie speaks to me in several ways. I can relate to the people in this
movie because I am still uncertain about what I truly want in life. A majority
of my family are immigrants who came to the United States at a very young age.
With no money to pursue an education, they were forced to work multiple jobs to
support themselves. I am among the first generation in our family to go to
college. Though I am uncertain of what I really want to do in life, I am in the
business field. The reason I am in this particular field is because I have a
few family members in it. I have been a working student since the age of 16 and
want to purse an education rather than work a minimum wage job. Though business
interests me in certain aspects, I am not 100% confident if it is really what I
want to do if life. I was able to earn a 3 month internship, which was
defiantly a knowledgeable and memorable experience. I am the type of guy that
loves trying new things. If it interests me, I like to excel in that subject as
much as possible. When I first started, I was getting trained for what I would
be doing. Once I started the work it became fairly easy. However, doing the
same stuff over and over again began to become tedious. I did enjoy it, but I
could never see myself doing that for a living and having a stress free life. I
take this as a learning experience because I still many opportunities and
aspects of the business world to explore. I just hope to find one that I truly
love and enjoy because only then is when I will be amazing at what I do. This
quote "If a teacher can be motivational, we can feel successful even after
failing" is very accurate. I myself have been in situations where I was
not able to pass certain criteria or material but did comprehend everything and
felt successful even though I had failed at the time being. I got a bigger
picture and idea from it that helped shape who I am now. "We will have so
many unfulfilled passions, we will have so many adults who are unhappy in their
lives" is how I see many adults today. Many people are forced to go into
certain careers or take certain paths/roads they may not want to take because
it is the right thing to do. This leads them to an unhappy future. If those
some adults however were to have a choice and pick what it is that they truly
desire, then they would be happier human beings. Many know right off the bat
what it is they want with life and for some it may take longer. The key is
patience in letting someone finding what he or she is unbelievably talented at
along with something that won’t make them miserable. Pursuing your passion can
lead to success and happiness.